True Alignment
Recently I attended DestinyFest in Toronto, a self-development conference I always enjoy. I’m a sucker for inspiring speakers and places where leaders openly uplift and encourage other leaders and—because I struggle with social anxiety—I keep trying to practice...
The Power of Empathy
I’ve learned we have a surprising capacity for change. This morning, my 87 year old dad accidentally knocked over a mirror and it smashed into a million pieces. I heard him exclaim “shit” in a sad, exasperated tone.
Old Soul Leaders
I believe there are many old soul leaders here on Earth right now who came here to try to take us in a better direction before it’s too late. If you’re here reading this, you’re probably one of them, too, even if you don’t think of yourself that way. Almost all my clients are old soul leaders disguised as successful founders, entrepreneurs, artists and other innovators, who feel a calling in their soul to contribute to a better shared reality.
What’s Real For You Now?
As Rumi wrote: “If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?”
But, honestly, and no offence meant to Rumi, I think it’s human to feel irritated by this process. Let’s be real. It’s not fun being sanded, shaped and polished. It’s not fun facing all our fears and pain and parts of us we don’t yet know how to meet with love.
A Story About the Magic of Life
A story about a picture I drew that turned about to be magically prophetic.
10 Things I Learned While Writing My First Book
These lessons don’t just apply to writing a book. They are the same principles I applied when I founded a children’s charity that built schools and toilets in Asia helping hundreds of kids–which of course I had no idea how to do when I started.
How My Ability Works
Most of you know me as a clairvoyant coach, but I have two parts of myself:
One part is the higher consciousness part that channels guidance and knows how to solve any problem for anyone (assuming they follow the guidance). This part of me tunes into people like a radio station, and then I’m able to see what’s holding that person back from whatever they want to experience next, and how to clear it.
Identity and Consciousness
From a distance, it looks like mess and chaos. But look closer, and you’ll see the beginnings of real change.
Why the Old Way Won’t Work and What to Do Instead
This energy coming in is a kick-ass transformative energy, hell bent on awakening us.
What is its goal?
To shake us out of our stupor. Out of the dream.
Get the Answers You Need From Your Higher Self
Learning to (humbly) listen to your inner guidance is your best protection in world changing moments like this.
Emotional Anchors and Deep Thoughts
I want. I want. I want…. but I’m not or I don’t have.
Of course it’s exciting to lean into these desires, and these are all perfectly good things to want and create. The problem isn’t the wanting. It’s the emotional anchor underneath the wanting. We wanna look at that.
Use Your Value Setpoint to Create New Things Faster
Many seemingly impossible challenges can be overcome when you are clear on your Value Setpoint, because then can organize your daily decisions around supporting that.
10 Rules of Real Love
Valentine's Day got me thinking about romantic relationships. I know too many amazing, beautiful people who have given up on finding something great, and I think that's a tragedy for two reasons: first because I'm a romantic (I'm not in love with bachata for...
How to Become a “Natural” at Something
When I started taking latin dancing lessons in May I could barely move my body; I was so stiff and self conscious. I had barely ever danced before.
Yet this past Friday an amazing salsa dancer (and salsa’s not my strength) told me I’m a natural.
Stop Doing This and You’ll Love 2018
A lot of people secretly think their life would be boring without drama. So even though they say they hate it, they subconsciously create, attract and feed it. What if you had nothing or no one to bitch at or about? No one to look down on or make fun of or gossip...
The One Question that Has Made My Life a Great Adventure
I am a person who has done many life experiments that have made me who I am. These life experiments are always the result of a question I like to play with…
How to Use Passion to Tap Into Your Genius
If you’re afraid to tap into your passion, you’ll never tap into your genius. And if you’re expressing passion from a place of anger and fear, you’ll never tap into your genius. So how do you use passion to tap into your genius?
What All Successful Creators Have in Common
All very successful creators have one thing in common. Here’s what it is and how to have it.
My Life So Far (What I’ve Learned)
It’s my birthday in 2 days, so I decided to do a retrospective on everything important I’ve learned. Here’s what I wrote.
This is What Fierce Self Love Looks Like (P.S. It Ain’t Easy)
Maybe some of you will relate to the story I’m about to share. Sometimes, when you get too comfortable, too set in your ways, the Universe turns your life upside down and inside out as a gift, to shake you up and help you remember who you really ARE.
The One Thing You Need to Stop Doing to Be Successful in 2017
The one thing we all need to stop doing in 2017 to be successful as our True Selves is to give up Perfectionism, and the key to that is understanding why we pursue it in the first place.
Ignoring Stuff Feels Shitty; Get Deliberate Instead
Being deliberate is a tool that helps us access the higher parts of ourselves. Often we feel helpless. But we can take our power back by being deliberate about our choices in any situation.
Want to Fix Yourself and Others? Try This Instead
If you want to help someone, don’t spout spiritual platitudes at them like “just be in the now”. Show up and listen with genuine empathy and unconditional love. Share your own vulnerabilities so they know they’re not alone. We cannot “fix” or heal people.
The Pea Sprout and the Sunflower (Your Life is a Garden: Part 2)
Your life is a garden.
When you first feel called to grow something new, it’s scary.
You know in your heart that your old garden is no longer enough for you. But now what?